Following a meeting with a professor of mine in which the words "If you don't go to graduate school, you're stupid, it'd be a waste..." clung in the air around my mind and have followed me around for a couple of days.
I have been engaging myself in introspection these last couple weeks and I have determined that I do not have any tiny hearts desire to go to graduate school and that if I choose not to project myself into the veins of the professional world, I will not be a failure.
No matter what I choose I will leave this institution an educated woman with the not only the freedom, but the RIGHT to decide which path to continue on and how to employ my education. Notice how I say "how to employ" and not "whether or not I employ". My eduation and the knowledge I take from here will be mine always and it is something that no one can dismiss or take away from me during this lifetime.
It is because of certain modern organizations of women that I have never called myself a feminist and have felt insulted at the thought of being categorized as one, until today. I am not a feminist in the modern connation of the word because I believe that the way it is defined today is not Feminism. Unfortunatley, it is difficult to alter a social definition so I will call myself a classical feminist in the same way that I am a classical liberal.
It offends me that modern feminism would have the audacity to belittle other women and descriminate against them because of their right to choose other values above their careers. It is not acceptable in any way for women to feel that they are a "waste" or "stupid" within our society if they do not pursue professional advancement in their career field.
I would like to start a Political Action Committee dedicated and created for women, like myself, who are educated and in every way believe themselves to be equals in society but also hold the belief that it is just as sucessful to stay home with their children or use thier education in a different fashion than being professionally sucessful according to society's standards.
This PAC would be conservative, pro-life, pro-family, pro-women. I feel like educated women like myself who holds this opinion and are comfortable with the idea of mothers staying home with their children , if they are able to, are underrepresented. While it is not everyone's ability or luxury, the problem is the attitude toward those who choose who do from extreme "feminist" ideologies that are currently permeating the young minds in our society and is its own form of sexism.
So, this is my latest tirade but I certainly hope that this goal will eventually come to fruition whether by myself or someone else who feels the same way.
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Way to be Subverissive. I never new I was dateing a feminist. Kinda cool. Ibsen would be so proud.
Forget all that...go to grad school. Just kidding, do what you want, even if that means enslaving yourself to old world values....just kidding again.
This all makes me think of that wonderful Family Guy episode. I think you watched it.
I'm sorry to here that you dropped that lit class. But at least you're still reading the plays. Tell me what you think. And that...other thing you're doing now sounds cool...I don't remember.
Alright, peace. Hope life is good.
Carin shared your post with me. *thumbsup*
I think you might be interested in this group:
www.feministsforlife.org
I haven't gone over the site with a fine toothed comb, but at a long glance it appears to fit with your views.
Hope that's helpful.
*smile*
(Carin's sister)
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